It was... bittersweet
There are so many "firsts" in your life that you will always remember, whether that be first best friend, first date, first failure, etc. I will always remember the first day of class at Millbrook, and that stab of nervousness I felt as I walked into the cafeteria for the first time and realized I knew absolutely no one. But four years later, despite all the stress we have endured and the time spent complaining about various teachers or assignments, I can say the experience consisted overall of good moments. So rather than dwell on the few negatives, I decided to mention a few small moments and people from each year that hold special places in my heart that transcend any of the bad.
Who knew that my first friend I made at Millbrook Freshman year would end up being my best? I do not remember the exact moment I met Rebecca Irene, but I am confident it started with a timid "Hey I'm Kaitlyn, do you wanna warm up with me?" at the first day of JV tennis practice. We often ended up playing together, and she stuck around warming up with me even though she has always been 10x better. Even though we did not have any classes together Freshman year, we still managed to remain friends until we got to know each other even more over the course of the past three years. Now we have countless memories together, but those are stories for another time! Secondly, another key moment I had Freshman year was with the aforementioned cafeteria debacle. I had second lunch on the first A-day, and decided to sit with the equally-as-sky Maria Alejandra (back when she was shy, that is). I recall pretending to know a lot about One Direction and 5 Seconds of Summer to have a decent conversation with her, because all other small talk led back to them in the end. But nevertheless, I am still eternally grateful that she was nice enough to let me sit with her and made my first day of high school so much easier and fun.
Sophomore year is where I had some of my favorite moments, but I think some of the best that involved IB people had to be with my English group. By happenstance, Mrs. Cortwright placed Anna Thompson, Lindsey Mallard, Graham Watkins, and I in the same group and we all got along very well. In fact, we got along so well that during the last three quarters we never moved tables and only sat with each other. One of the memories that stands out the most is after Noah Showalter got a purple Bojangles t-shirt from his friend's grandmother's attic, and asked around the cafeteria if anyone wanted it. Naturally, I was not one to turn down a perfectly good shirt to use as a pajama top, so I took it and brought it back to my English group with pride. Rather than just making a comment on it, Graham decided to take it from me and put it on. As this was a size small shirt and Graham was wearing football pads, it was basically a tight crop top on him. He looked absolutely ridiculous. Anna, Lindsey, and I just laughed at him the entire period much to the teacher's annoyance, but I could see the smile she was trying to hide everytime she looked at us.
To be honest, Junior year was kind of a blur with all the assignments we had to do, but I managed to make a few more friends somewhere along the way. I first met Alexandra Butler Freshman year, but our friendship really started to pick up last year. I remember being quite intimidated by her, since she was Vice President of Junior Class Council and always seemed to have multiple people talking to her at once. But after talking with her in class, while she taught me to knit, or even while picking collards and okra at Goodwill farms, I learned she was not intimidating at all; she's just a really cool person to have the most random conversations with. As for a weird memory involving another friend, Danny Andrussier, there was this one lunch in Ms. Clemmer's room that stands out. I am not quite sure if he was trying to make Rebecca and I laugh, but he started drawing on the white board with string cheese as a marker. I guess he was unsatisfied when we paid little attention, so he went over to his friend Michael Pasca, who was eating a banana, and lightly shoved it upwards to smash the banana on the tip of his nose. It did not make a mess or anything, and only resulted in a slightly baffled Michael, but I feel like this memory encapsulates my friendship with Danny. He is always unpredictable and doing whatever it takes to make someone laugh, and even of his methods are odd sometimes, it just adds to his fun personality.
There are a lot of stand out memories from Senior Year, and I got to know quite a few people even more through shared lunches and classes. Some of these people include Iman Breland, Quentin Meritt, Chris Vogel, and Keerti Kalluru, who all ended up being in my Canterbury Tales Group. Even though our movie was extremely cringy to everyone but us, we all had so much fun running around in super hero costumes in public. Shout out to the time where Keerti stood on top of a rock as Wonder Woman while spinning an iPhone Charger as her golden lasso of truth, or when I threw a plastic table at Chris since he was dressed as a creepy old man poking Iman with a stick. As you can see, a lot of my favorite moments revolve around school, and while some people may think that is sad, I find absolutely nothing wrong with it. I will be the first to say I did enjoy high school, and though I cannot wait for Summer and college, I will miss everyone I have ever met here (whether they are listed here publicly or listed in my heart). My departure from Millbrook is thus bittersweet, because I am more than ready to leave but do not want to say my goodbyes. But I know with confidence that even though moving forward is terrifying, it is also exciting because of how many new friends I will make while still cherishing the old.
ahhhh! kaitlyn!! thank you for the shoutout. youre so amazing, college is gonna be so tough without you there for me to bully. I'll miss all our tok and bio team ups. Youre the smart one remember that. Im soososos glad we got even closer this year. I'm honored to call you one of my best friends! also thanks for putting up with my dramatic personally and probs but also going on adventures that were non school related! i will find you (and rebecca) next year just you wait boo
ReplyDeleteI loved your post!!!! I totally remember sophomore English and what a great table that was (minus Noah who just wanted to sit there with us)!!! Your reflection was really good and I especially liked the color coding! I really liked your introduction too, because IT WAS really sweet, and I really enjoyed it. Great job!!!
ReplyDeleteWe literally HAD to talk about one direction, we didn't have another choice! hahaha I remember one time we had a solid 30-minute-conversation about religion in English last year. And I will always remember how I get on you for being such a GOOD person. I'll miss you and Rebecca very much. Both of you are the queens we deserve.
ReplyDeleteKaitlyn you are the nicest person I know and also just the best person all around. I'll miss you a lot but I know you're going to do great things. My queen!!
ReplyDeleteKaitlyn, I don't think many people get to see you in a light other than being incredibly smart and hardworking which leads them all to have you help them on homework. But all of the people listed in this post are pretty darn lucky people as they have truly gotten to know you and see the unique, funny, and caring personality that you have. Thank you for being such a great friend and I really enjoyed seeing your reflection and I think the ability to look back on the past and be content and happy but also be ready to move to the future is super valuable and important and I know you'll do great things! But haha I completely had forgotten about that shirt and that class is just filled with such great memories. But thank you and I only hope more people have the opportunity to get to fully know Kaitlyn Becker.
ReplyDeleteKaitlyn!! This is my third comment because I knew I just had to! You are so unique and I admire you so much for your quirky personality, your hard work, and your ability to do everything you do so perfectly. I loved being able to spend time with you in English and both lunches where we talked about such crazy things like Stripy and Veronica, futons (did I spell that right) and human pizzas (I'm still scared about that :)) with Rebecca, Chris, Danny, and Josh. I know for sure that you will do great at Campbell and in the future!!
ReplyDeleteUgh, this assignment is killing me. Anyway, Kaitlyn my dear friend as you can see from these comments you are loved. YOU ARE RAD. AKA Really Awesome Dudette. I could write a laundry list of your amazing qualities but its 11: 50 so i'll hurry up. Over the last two years our friendship has grown. I'm glad last year I eventually wound up eating much with you and Rebecca. One of the best decisions I made that year. Through you I have learned a lot. I like to think that some of your awesomeness has rubbed off on me.I will miss your quirky sayings and positive attitude. Don't be surprised If I send you random texts or emails.
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